I have come in contact with a lot of women
mostly
because I am a woman too
A lot of we ladies complain that guys walk away
from
us simply because they refused to give them
s*x, some
of us are even tempted to give away their
virginity just
to keep the guys.
But wait a bit.... Virginity may not be the real
reason
the guys go away. Yes, no doubt, there are
several guys
who want s*x, and if they don’t get it, they walk
away.
The problem may not be with the virginity or the
s*x.
The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals
that
both the wise and foolish were both virgins, the
other
five were not refused from seeing the
bridegroom
because they were virgins or because they lost
their
virginity, but because they were foolish; they
were
called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL.
Most ladies don’t have EXTRA OIL to sustain any
relationship. While many brag about their
virginity,
that is all they have to offer, they forget that
virginity
ends the night after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL
is
what will keep marriage going.
If a man ask a lady for s*x and she says NO, the
man
can walk away if what he really wanted was s*x
and
also if that is all he thinks the lady can offer
him. A
man may not come to a lady for s*x, along the line he
may be tempted to ask for s*x, if the lady turns
him
down, the man may still
stay in the relationship if he sees other things
that are
valuable to him, but if he doesn’t, he may walk
away.
Before you think guys are walking away because
you
are a virgin, look inwardly. Some ladies who brag
about
virginity are somewhat timid, some impolite,
uncultured and aggressive. Why would a
guy stay with such a lady? Some ladies do not
have
manners, some do not have much upstairs, some
are
not social, some are dull, and maybe the best
thing
they have is their hips, nice backside, nice breast
and
nice lips, and so when
a guy comes because of all the physical shapes
and
wants s*x, if he is turned down, he walks away
because there is nothing else interesting about
the
lady.
Most men now are even scared of marrying such
virgins. Their fears prompt them to want to test
before
they discus marriage because many ladies who
got
married as virgins have caused their husbands to
be
looking elsewhere because they are too naïve on
bed.
However, you don’t need to test to be sure she
will be
good, you can know a lady who will be good at
home
and bed by her decent conversation, by the level
of
knowledge acquired, by her quest/zest/passion
for
knowledge and by God’s leading.
I know of many ladies who are still virgins, they
have
great relationships, they have many friends
around
them, you may not even know they are still
virgins
unless they tell you. Do not break your virginity
because a guy wants to walk away, unless you
don’t
have anything else to offer in the
relationship. It is not all about virginity, work to
build
up virtue. Virginity is good, but to your virginity,
add
knowledge, add EXTRA OIL….“And beside this,
giving all
diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue
knowledge; And to knowledge temperance; and
to
temperance patience; and to patience godliness,
And
to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly
kindness charity.” 2 Pet. 1:5-7.
Virginity or no virginity...,do you have any Extra
oil to
sustain a relationship?
Pause and Ponder....
#copied tho
#worth_sharing
