A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away
from them simply because they refused to give
them sex, some are even tempted to give away
their virginity just to keep the guys.
Let me be very blunt here. Virginity may not be the real reason the guys go away. Yes, no doubt,
there are several guys who want sex, and if they
don’t get it they walk away. The problem may
not be with the virginity or the sex. The story of
the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that
both the wise and foolish were both virgins, the other five were not refused from seeing the
bridegroom because they were virgins or
because they lost their virginity, but because
they were foolish; they were called foolish
because they had nol EXTRA OIL.
Most ladies don’t have any EXTRA OIL to sustain any relationship. While many brag about their
virginity, that is all they have to offer, they forget
that virginity ends the night after the wedding,
but EXTRA OIL is what will keep marriage going.
If a man ask a lady for sex she says NO, the
man can walk away if what he really wanted was sex and also if that is all he thinks the lady can
offer him. A man may not come to a lady for
sex, along the line he may be tempted to ask for
sex, if the lady turns him down, the man may still
stay in the relationship if he sees other things
that are valuable to him, but if he doesn’t, he may walk away.
Before you think guys are walking away because
you are a virgin, look inwardly. Some ladies who
brag about virginity are somewhat timid, some
impolite, uncultured and aggressive. Why would a
guy stay with such a lady? Some ladies do not have manners, some do not have much upstairs,
some are not social, some are dull, and maybe
the best thing they have is their hips, nice
backside, nice breast and nice lips, and so when
a guy comes because of all the physical shapes
and wants sex, if he is turned down, he walks away because there is nothing else
interesting about the lady.
Most men now are even scared of marrying such
virgins. Their fears prompt them to want to test
before
they discuss marriage because many ladies who got married as virgins have caused their
husbands to be looking elsewhere because they
are too naïve on bed.
However, you don’t need to test to be sure she
will be good, you can know a lady who will be
good at home and bed by her decent conversation, by the level of knowledge acquired,
by her quest/zest passion for knowledge and by
God’s leading. I know of many ladies who are
still virgins, they have great relationships, they
have many friends around them, you may not
even know they are still virgins unless they tell you. Do not break your virginity
because a guy wants to walk away, unless you
don’t have anything else to offer in the
relationship. It is not all about virginity, work to
build up virtue. Virginity is good, but to your
virginity, add knowledge, add EXTRA OIL….“And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith,
virtue; and to virtue, knowledge; And to
knowledge, temperance; and to temperance,
patience; and to patience, godliness, And to
godliness, brotherly kindness; and
to brotherly kindness, charity.” 2Pet. 1:5-7. Virginity or no virginity...,do you have any Extra
oil to sustain a relationship?
Ponder on this my distinguished ladies!!!
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