Was I wrong by sending a friend request to my husband's friend.

@fabulous Vicky @invincible @Emmyrexx @vict- Vames please I need the list

Hmmm

Depending on your intent ... U re either right or wrong

I will just advice you to talk to her and explain to her that the friend request you sent to the man was just an harmless one

hmmmmmm am coming

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u have to confront that woman.....I think there z something going on between her and ur husband....and for u sending friend request for her husband z not a crime....at least family friend things

I agree with you @onahsunday631

I guess their is more to dat relationship.....confront her talk some sense into her

i dnt tink der re jst frnds.

@victoriouschild lyk timaya i concur

der tnk u wana do same 2 her hubby.dat is also hve a relationshp wit him jst as dr re doing. To me i wl advic u confrnt ur hubby instead

Hmmmmm... My dear u have to confront her and explain things to her.... Y is she jealous self if truly she is not dating ur husband... Hmmmmm

If nothing fishy is going on btw d lady n ur hubby, dey shldn't bother abt d harmless request. Dey think dat u start sugaring n honeying d lady hubby.

@hayanfeoluwa I will advice nothing like confrontation... let it be... if they are having a relationship leave it... God have a way of exposing stuffs like that... you confronting her may make her think you have something else in mind and might lead to a big issue in ur home... forget about their relationship and take good care of urz... if possible avoid her like a plague, because for her to still have a year slight issue in !Ind !sans she might not like you

My advice : Tell the Lady to let ur husband be and face her own husband.... Shikena.

u too much sis@pharm-vickymears abeg wu help me find ma padi @pizzaro it been long I heard from him. any information about him @invincible

@hayanfeoluwa where have you been? I missed you :) about Pizzaro he recently lost his phone

I miss you too dear@invincible I actually show up cos ma bestie was complaining about me being a ghost reader@emmyrexx

U're not wrong in sendin dt friendship request in fact, dt request has served it's purpose. I don't think ur hubby and dt woman ar innocent. How can a man whose name u bear, who you share a bed wt, who u hav a kid for and who u share intimacy wt, share d romantic names he should be calling u alone, wt another man's wife? Wht hpnd to her own husband calling her those names? Abeg ur hubby shouldn't even think of using those names on another let alone saying them and stl having d nerves to confront u to cancel ur friendship request, and even come before u wt his woman friend's confrontation. Haba! We women don suffer for men hand. May God protect ur marriage my dear.

Tnx 4 d iv @Victoriouschild

[b]well am back shaa to me is nt an offence but it depends wat u have on ur mind nd about dey woman mater let it be forget her she can't be an obstacle to ur marriage jst fashi her nd focus on marriage....... unless u find out DAT something romantic is going on between Ur hubby nd dey so call frd[/b]

u r right

@cheta finally someone with brains

I don show @frankkay. You are not wrong my dear, God will save your marriage, honestly, all those sweet names ascribe for a friend by ur hubby are yours alone not even his mother, abeg open new fb account and chart with her husband but with caution do not let ur real id be known, through logical findings you are liable to know the truth. Pls note this, if you know the truth either good or bad, dat doesnt solve the problem, your husband is your problem, talk to him, digging deep may cause damage to your home. As for me if there is enough love amist you gys ur hubby ought to respect you for all i care.

DONT MIND HER... WHAT GOES ON WILL SURELY COME AROUND

Yes u are wrong do i smell somtin fishy der

Hmmmm......dnt really knw wat to tink,bhu let her knw and understand ur intentions

U owe her no explanation for sending the friend request. But u might want to knw why its an issue cos if she is friends with ur husband, u are suppose to be friends too with her husband, dats wat family friends are supposed to do. She should even be happy except her and ur husband are not saying the truth.

owk..... jst a minute

Nothing wrong if there's nothing going on btwn ur hubby and the lady u send friends request to her hubby

Let her be

sumtin is fishy btw ur hubby n d lady

go nd reason with her

If only der is nating going on between de lady nd ur husband den i dnt think she should would have to worry abt it bt dis one dat she seems restless means der is more to their closeness. Den i will advise u to confront her.

They have something going because I don't see what they are afraid of in your harmless friendly request. Our people use to say that a killer will never allow cutlass near his neck. I have one that usually tells me that I snatched my hubby from her even when she had already married before I met my hubby. We usually laugh over it but I have my reservations but she is not my hubby's kind of a woman.

*Clears throat* i strongly concurred with what sis mi to sure said @Temmyjoy. why is the woman jealous about you sending friend request to her hubby if she doesn't have anything to hide. ad just as @becca have just said, she should be glad that you did that to make family friends. instead, she oppose it which means her hands are not clean. Dear... i think confronting her is okay but you should do it amicably. Thank goodness she as decided to come out of her shell...lol is good to see you surface here again....@Hayanfeoluwa

Hmmm

I dn't knw y d lady in question is protecting her home nd trying 2 destryo sum1 else home...i tink dere is more 2 her r/ship wit ur hubby

I dn't tink confronting her will be a gud idea bt i knw d secret will be exposed soon

lol u are not serious @Emmyrexx

Seen

@Krizzy, hahahahahaha!!! I'm blushing. @Becca, u're absolutely right. @Xtopher, u dey on point. I don't even knw why ds is an issue for ds duo. Well, I don't even think ds man's love for his wife is gr8er than d one he has for dt his so called 'friend'.

What really was your motive in sending that request..... Like the woman rightly said, that act was a very childish one. Cus having read through ur story again, i couldn't find where u made mention of been a friend to the lady in question on facebook. So y friend her husband? It's not just right. My opinion though i may be wrong.

@pythagoras of course ur opinion ix fukking wrong ....i mean what is there in facebook friend request , fukking facebook for dat matter , what if she became frndz with her husband in real life just as she ix with her own husband then all hell will break loose?????......in fact it is the so called woman dat ix childish , you call someone's husband; honey , darling , sweetheart and he in turn does d same and d wife never rained abuses or called u a husband snatcher(trust me mist women wud) and she just sends ur husband a common facebook request and u are complaining , i mean who is really childish here.... @cheta #lol continue blushing ooo

There is something fishy in that relationship

why would she be angry, is she stupid!!!! since she claims she is having a harmless relationship wit ur hubby why is she some mad dat u want to do same with her hubby. dere is more to dis dan meet d eye. if u are observant u will find out

I think I should first talk a little bit on marriage b4 I proceed wt wht I want to say. Marriage is a sacred union of two bodies and two souls, wt a solemn promise 4rm both parties to be there 4 each other through thick and thin. Ds means dt in marriage, a man's body and soul is joined to d body and soul of his wife. Therefore, d two bcom forever one and ar inseparable and now, they no longer do things differently. Their pronoun changes 4rm first person singular to plural like 'we', 'us', 'our', etc. Now d problem ds days is dt most ppl do not knw d depth of wht is done on d day they got married, so they tend to behave anyhow in marriage. In marriage, there ar things a couple share wch they can't share wt others, not even by mistake. But ds man in question shares some of the things he shouldn't share, wt ds his woman friend who's also married and also shares hers wt another person's husband. I believe if ds man knws wht he's into (ie marriage), he'll cut down on his excesses wt dt his 'friend' even wtout his wife telling him to do so. Bcos I don't see wht stopped dem 4rm getting married since they so love each other to d extent of calling each other honey, swthrt and darling. There's a limit to everything. Now dt they ar married, they should set strict limits to dt their friendship and extend it to their families. Any kind of friendship wch can't be extended to even their children, is from d pit of hell. D man should respect his body wch is his wife, he should protect his wife 4rm d wolf and not throw her to d wolves or be d wolf himself. If he had little honour and respect 4 his wife, he would hav defended her by jokingly telling his friend dt his wife meant no harm but he stood there like ishi azu (head of a fish), took in all she said, then had d effrontery to go to his wife's presence and utter rubbish! Sorry to say ds but dt man is d one acting in a childish manner. He should be a man and not behave like he's being controlled by d other woman. Wht is he so afraid of? I keep wondering. @Krizzy, wetin I wan do nah!

Dt woman no even dey serious. She's stl there, asking if she dd d wrong thing. If she likes, let her not stamp her feet down and demand some respect and privacy in her marriage. From their present stage, they'll move on to another stage wt tym and maybe by then, it will be too late 4 her to stop.

i fink u shld confront her nd talk tinx out amicably dnt dull yurslf or show stupidity

Hmmmmm, it depends on ur intentions

7 pages already... I am sure dey've givn nice answers to ur question

not wrong in anyway