Have you been on multiple
dates with the same guy and
feel as if things aren’t
progressing the way you’d
like? Or are you fresh off of
the dating
scene and in a new
relationship? When you’re
still getting to know each
other and things are still
new, you may not know
what to do at times. Here are
five resources that help
when you are feeling
uncertain.
Will Having s*x Too Soon
Ruin My Relationship?
New relationships are
exciting, and there’s big
temptation to sleep together
early on. Both conventional
wisdom and experience
show that having s*x
too soon increases the
likelihood of ruining a
potential relationship. Here’s
why. When a man is
interested in a woman, it’s
usually about s*x at
first. Men are wired to chase
and it’s in the chase where
genuine connection and
affection grow. If you have
s*x too soon and want to be
in a
committed and lasting
relationship, you send the
wrong signal and don’t give
him the opportunity to know
who you really are. It’s in the
chase that he
gets to know you beyond
your physical attributes. My
best advice is to wait till you
are married to him.
Am I in Love? The
Distinction Between Love,
Lust and Infatuation
Are you dating a guy you’re
really into? Or are you in a
new relationship and not
sure if you’re in love? In this
situation, it can be easy to
confuse
love with lust and
infatuation since they share
intense feelings. Learn the
distinctions between love,
lust and infatuation to find
out where you’re
at. And answer 20 questions
to know for certain if you’re
in love or not.
How to Build a Stronger
Connection with My Man
This one book, The Four
Agreements, when put into
practice will transform the
relationship you have with
yourself and others. If you
are looking to
improve your connection
with the guy you’re with, the
message in this book is
simple, yet very profound.
When you embrace and live
each of the Four
Agreements, you will
experience personal
freedom. These are the four
agreements: Be impeccable
with your word. Don’t take
anything personally. Don’t
make assumptions. Always
do your best.
Relationship Questions to
Ask for Long-Term
Commitment
Have you been dating a guy
you really like for the past
few months? Are you
thinking you want to be in a
long-term relationship with
him? If so, check
in with your inner
monologue and answer
these relationship questions
after you have gotten to
know him well enough to
get a good sense of who he
is.
Your answers to these
relationship questions will
confirm whether or not
you’re both compatible for
the long run.
Why It’s Not Personal
Ever been in a promising
relationship where things
have been going really well,
only to have him say, “It’s
not you, it’s me. I want to
keep seeing
you and also think we
should see other people.”
When I heard these words,
we had been dating
exclusively for a few months.
My heart sank because I
liked him a lot. Our
relationship had already
gone too far. I wasn’t able to
step back and be okay with
him being and sleeping with
other women. I’ve
come to understand that if a
relationship doesn’t work
out the way you want, or a
guy you like doesn’t ask you
out again, or your partner
criticizes
you, it’s not personal. It’s
what you make it mean.
Source:
loveforsuccessfulwomen.com
