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who is to be blame?

who is to be blame?

By Henry in 24 Aug 2017 | 17:14
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Who Actually Is At Fault, Olajumoke or Joshua?

My name is Mrs Olajumoke Davis, I'm 35 years old and I've been married for the past 17 years.

For 17 years I've been praying for the fruit of the womb.
I and my husband have been to different hospitals for medical check up, but all to No avail. The Doctors said we are both fertile (meaning we can Both make babies).
I married my husband at age 18 while I was still a virgin.
My husband(Joshua) has always been there for me in everything, understanding and supportive in our trying times.
About 2 years ago, my childhood friend advised me on what to do....following her advice I remembered "Bayo" my 22 years old house help. Bayo has been with us since he was 8 years old, we treated him as if he was ours.

I started talking to him about his personal life. Few months later, my husband traveled to his home town to see his people, so I utilized the opportunity!
I locked Bayo in my room and begged him to have sex with me,He refused at first, then I threatened him that I would Send him back to d village....he later agreed, so we had sex 5 times b4 day break!
The next day my husband came back.
13days later, I became pregnant, unknowing to Bayo that I was pregnant, I gave him 1million naira, told him to take d money and Go back to the village........the lil chap was greatfully satisfied!
I eventually told my husband that I was pregnant and he instantly became the most happiest person in the world, he called his mother,updated them about the news and they started buying kid clothing and Toys. Few months later we did scan and the doctors told us that it was twin.
Glory be to God, I gave birth to Taiwo(female) and Kehinde(male).
2 days ago, my husband woke me up in d middle of the night, held me close to his arms, looked into my eyes, and asked me "Jumoke, who is the father of our kids" I was shocked, scared that he must have known some how, I just knew he had known because of d way he asked me, I didn't know what to say, I was so shy bcus I knew I've betrayed his trust, I looked at his eyes and I burst into tears........
he then told me "Jumoke, before u start talking, I have a confession to make" I cleaned my face and sat upright. he went ahead and told me how he had unprotected sex with a girl in his village and contacted STD before he got married, and how he didn't treat it for a very long time, that eventually when he went to the hospital, the doctors told him that the STD he didn't treat ontime had made him sterile(can't impregnate a woman)
He said he treated the STD b4 he got married to me, and he has always known that he was sterile, and that all those test we've been doing that he has been paying the doctors to give me a wrong result.
He also added that the woman he had sex with back then got pregnant and the child is BAYO our house help. He also went ahead by saying that he has always wanted to tell me to look for someone to impregnate me but he just didn't have the balls to do so.
But now that I have done it, he'll like to know who d father is.
"I fainted"

*What do you think Jumoke should say if she finally gain consciousness?*
Now, who is more to blame.
Enjoy your evening.
24 Aug 2017 | 17:14
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nobody please,just get up and him, who owns the baby
24 Aug 2017 | 17:20
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24 Aug 2017 | 17:29
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Hmmm...this is serious oo...I will blame Joshua cos he hid d truth 4rm his wife abt him being sterile nd made her a barren 4 good 17yrs,I won't blame Jumoke cos she did that to save her marriage...but to be sincere some men are wicked oo
24 Aug 2017 | 17:31
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its serious let me ask baba
24 Aug 2017 | 17:37
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The hubby is to be blamed
24 Aug 2017 | 17:38
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Both of em!
24 Aug 2017 | 17:51
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@oluwaslimzy, u don't captured my heart oooo
24 Aug 2017 | 18:09
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@oluwaslimzy. I mean u don captured my heart.. my heart beats for u ni
24 Aug 2017 | 18:10
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Omg.!.!.!.!.!.!
24 Aug 2017 | 18:20
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The man was certainly wrong for not telling his wife about his condition, but the woman also made the wrong decision.
24 Aug 2017 | 18:26
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Oh Mehn very very compilcated story.
24 Aug 2017 | 18:28
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this is serious... Joshua should be blame for hiding the truth from his partner... is very bad. we'll tell him, YOU SON IMPREGNATED ME, WHAT FATHER CAN'T DO, YOUR SON CAN DO IT VERY WELL... I know Josh will like, leave my house am tire of marriage...
24 Aug 2017 | 19:47
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My points exactly @oluwaslimzy that's pure wickedness na
24 Aug 2017 | 19:54
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I blame Joshua for hiding the truth all the while.. And I also blame Jumoke for not using her head, if her husband was fertile like the doctors claimed how come Bayo impregnated her after one night when her husband has been doing it for 17 years without result? She should just wake up and tell him that Taiwo and Kehinde are his grandchildren and and also his step-children
24 Aug 2017 | 23:46
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The hubby is to be blamed but nothing spoil shaa..The hubby now has grand children from his son
25 Aug 2017 | 08:48
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I think is the husband
25 Aug 2017 | 11:08
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@sanctus4real They both have a share in the blame. The husband is wrong not to have open up at the right time. Should he open up on time it 'll have been a different thing entirely. The wife on the other hand, she's no reason or whatsoever to do what she'd done just to have a child. What if she doesn't succeed at the 1st attempt, I'm sure she 'll go for 2nd, 3rd, 4th and or 5th if not more. They both have commit adultery.
25 Aug 2017 | 12:06
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cycle
25 Aug 2017 | 15:52
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the man
25 Aug 2017 | 16:14
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I blame bayo
25 Aug 2017 | 16:36
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I dnt tink we shuld put d blame on any of them.but from my opinion,i tink jummy shuld tell ha husbnd d trut,afterall Bayo is his son,so the twins are his grandchildren,l'o ba tan.
25 Aug 2017 | 17:11
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D man should forget abt d father of d baby cos he's @ fault
26 Aug 2017 | 04:44
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I can't believe wat i am reading in da comments :s
26 Aug 2017 | 05:10
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hmmmmmm
26 Aug 2017 | 17:50
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well Joshua is to blame because he hid the truth from jumoke
26 Aug 2017 | 19:03
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the husband.
27 Aug 2017 | 11:40
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Let me come back
27 Aug 2017 | 13:20
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