There are some people who do
not have in their dictionaries...
one-man-one-woman. They are
not ok or cannot be ok with just
a single partner. Let's look at
some of the reasons.
1. MONEY
For some people it's all about
money and nothing else. They
have multiple sexual partners
just so they can have multiple
'accounts' or sources of income.
Unfortunately, some of these
people do not think of
themselves as prostitutes.
2. REVENGE
There are some who have been
hurt seriously in the past and
they vowed make people go
through what they went through
or worse. They therefore do not
put their heart in the
relationship because of the
motive they came in with.
3. PLAN A, B, C, D....
Some people are seriously afraid
of broken heart. They have
heard different stories about
that and do not want to
experience that in their life.
Some have experienced it but
have vowed not to go through it
again so they have multiple
partners and they don't care so
much who leaves.. at least the
rest or the other partner will be
there in case one leaves.
4. NO is UNAVAILABLE
Some people are able to speak
about 10 different languages but
unfortunately they don't know
how to say NO in any of the
languages. Anybody who proposes
to them, they will accept and
anybody who wants sex they will
give. They can even accept two
proposals or propose to two
different people same day.
5. BOOST SELF ESTEEM
Some people deliberately
propose and enter into
relationships just to try and see
if they will be able to get the
person to say YES or accept
them. Guys who do this go in for
ladies who are still virgins, high
class ladies or hard to get ladies
or new lady in town. For the
ladies who do this, go in for
people who are well respected in
society or people with high
status...Like a lecturer, minister,
pastor, CEO etc
6. NYMPHOMANIAC
There are people whose sexual
drive or desire is so high or
insatiable such that no one
person can satisfy them. So to
avoid the partner complaining
that they love sex too much,
they go in for side chicks to
satisfy their sexual desires.
7. FUN
Some people find it thrilling to
have multiple sexual partners.
The act of playing the partners
like chess is fun for the person.
There is nothing like love in it.
8. AVOID BOREDOM
For these people they are a bit
stable in the relationship when
with the partner but once they
move away from one geographical
area to another, they must get
another partner. They have a
partner in school, one at home,
one in hometown, one at
grandma's place etc. What it
means is that anyway they move
to, they have a partner.
9. RESEARCH/
INVESTIGATION
Some ladies are in search of
ORGASM. They have never
experienced it before but have
heard things, read and watch
things. The quest to experience
orgasm make them increase their
sample size. While a guy like this
will look for a partner who he can
practice certain sex positions
with because the real partner
wouldn't do. Eg anal sex or oral
sex.
10. CHEAP AND AVAILABLE
For some people, due to the
nature of their work or position
the temptation to have sex or
keep changing partners is high.
Some teachers, doctors, police,
long distance drivers, CEOs etc
don't go out begging for sexual
partners in most cases but
people rather come to them to
trade a favour with sex. Because
they have a lot to choose from
they are very choosy and some
even do audition in their head
before choosing the final
contestant.
There are instances where some
people in authority use their
office or power to demand sexual
relationships from those under
them.
NOTE
People come into relationships
with different reasons or
purposes and if you don't know
you may think it's because of
love. Take your time and study
the person. Remember also that
changing sexual partners will put
you at risk of STIs. Your self-
esteem is never boosted if you
do such a thing. People have
REASONS for the things they
do. Don't judge and don't sit
behind gossiping but you can help
if you have what it takes.
