SUITORS NOW PREFER OUR MAIDS TO OUR
DAUGHTERS FOR MARRIAGE!
Why not?
When we devote time in training the maids on how to cook
well, how to clean the house and on good mannerisms
while leaving our own daughters untrained.
We overwork the maids and they adjust with equanimity
because they need us to survive.
The maids turn out to manage the indignation and
insolence we and our children subject them to. All these
make the maids better wives who can manage even the
angriest of men.
Our precious daughters are pampered through nursery and
primary schools. They speak the English we want and
know all the cartoon slangs by heart. We beat the maids
blue black if they ever ask our girls to help out in
domestic duties.
They see kitchen things as maids' things.
The girls move from boarding schools to the university, do
their NYSC, Masters and get a job. Of course, they are
ripe for marriage and you wish that to happen soon.
They jump From one relationship to another, the same story. The guys
would parade and dump them.
They are only good in bed,
outings, clubs and red carpet functions.
The good and well focus guys when they notice that the possible
wife cannot cook, arrange things and are very domestically
untrained, dump them and go for a well trained housemaid, The rich guys can manage as they would
mitigate the handicap by hiring a domestic help. Not all
guys can afford this for a start.
The upcoming and very sensitive guys who would make
good husbands, fathers and leaders would not manage
these parents' inflicted shortcomings. They would settle for
well trained ones. They know the value and the pride in
hosting friends at home to delicious delicacies prepared by
a wife.
My friends love eating the food my wife makes. My wife's
proficiency in culinary matters and the joy she exudes in
cooking different dishes for me has made me to stop
eating outside. I tell people that as a married man, that I'm
forbidden to eat outside but I know the truth- no food can
taste any better than my wife's. I'm also convinced that
my addiction is not juju-inspired. It would have expired by
now. We are married for 6 years.
Not all your maids would remain your servants for ever.
Some of them would finally do part-time studies and like a
train, get to their God ordained destinations sooner or later.
Like a perfume, good guys perceive well trained wife
materials from afar and dump the daughters of the
bourgeois like hot iron.
Let your daughters learn what you teach your maids to
make them compete for the few available good men if
marriage is important to them. There are few guys who
believe that marriage is for better for worse a lot of guys can't.
Don't be deceived; love is an active verb. Yes it is. You
love; you loved; and you used to love. You can also hate
who you used to love. Therefore, some men are immune
to pre-marital love blindness.
In practice, love can't cover the stench of bad early
formation of our daughters.
Right now, educated former maids are now cornering
better men on offer because they possess the required qualities of a good home making wife.
Remember, Men are scarce! (Good one)
Start learning how to cook and stop waiting for maids food, good cook earned you good husband!...
