sorrow should not be a motivation for women,,, we should not be giving ourselves out for pains,,,, wen I was growing up,,, I learnt dat older pple are d ones suffering from stroke,,, but now, u wil see a 30 years old lady having stroke,,, why?? bcos she is using sorrow to show her pains,,, using makes over and smiles to mask her sadness,,,,, she is taking all in bcos she blives d good time will come,,,, what if d good time meets her in the grave???? we should say No to being sad,,, we should learn to enjoy our life and not be enduring wat life is throwing at us...