WOMEN AND BLIND LOYALTY.
This post is not in any way intended to tell Women to challenge Men, rather it is a post that's geared towards bringing sanity, and as well common sense to some ladies in their relationship Men.
You are a Lady, You post your pics on social networks eg Facebook, instagram. You even tagged your Almighty super boo and bae of life, but he managed to click the like button but wouldn't ever comment. Yet he monitor those that comments on your pics and thereafter start questioning you about them, who is Smart?, who is Micheal?, why must they call you sweetheart?, my darling etc. Yet you see noting wrong in it, that's blind loyalty.
But he posts his own pics,without tagging you. You rush to click the like button and then proceed to claim ownership by using words like The love of my life,my handsome prince, My better half, The boo of all boo's, my soulmate, my chocolate candy etc. Yet you wouldn't have the guts to question him on the ladies that kept commenting and calling him sweet names.eg, My better half, my sugar, my Angel. Daddym etc. Is it not blind loyalty when you don't feel secure with your Man and yet feign ignorance?.
On your birthday, he would send you a text message and even manage to call. But once his birthday gets closer, you start making preparations. Then on the D day, you would use his picture as your profile pic, tag him, gush about how both of you met and how sweet he has been to you and that you love him to the moon and back. But he won't comment on that pic you dedicated to him on his birthday. Yet your Happy replying your friends who wished him happy birthday in your own post & page. Chai, blind loyalty.
He rarely commend you on your looks and outfit, but get pissed off when other Men do it publicly and your crime was that you said thank you with a smile. If i may ask, does he want you to shout and frown at Men who compliment your good looks ? Yet you beg for mercy telling him your sorry. Please this is blind loyalty.
Your single, but you have to obey him by not going out with your friends, you won't even have male friends. But he goes and associate with anybody he feel like and want to go out with. If i may ask, Is this not blind loyalty?
You don't dare say no to him whenever he wants sex, whether your in the mood or not. Yet he is not even engaged to you and when you get pregnant, he will tell you to abort it and that he is not ready yet and to you, he love you and you will wait for him. That's blind loyalty.
The most annoying one is the one that if your with him, he determines who you are cheerful with and who you frown at. Even if you see your your old school mates, he will expect you to greet the person as a stranger, just to please him. But he sees his old school mates and shouts, jumps, hug and embrace him or her. To be candid, this is blind loyalty.
As a single lady, your boyfriend has your Facebook password and other social media login details, and most times, he questions you if he suspects your being too friendly with a Man on social media. To you, its a prove of your faithfulness to him, but you don't even touch his phone or know his Facebook password & other social medial login details. Hmmm blind loyalty.
I meant no offence but am just thinking and as well reasoning the rational behind the loyalty.
To those offended with the post, please show blind loyalty by not attacking the post, just take the message
No offense intended.
