1. Good Manners.. Treat your date well, and you’re well on
your way to landing a
second date.
Treat her more like your college buddy and make her feel relaxed.
Good manners, such as holding the door open or pulling out her chair, is an everyday habit that will pay in dividends – and demonstrates behaviours that
every woman appreciates in a relationship.
2. Smile.
A smile lights up your face and makes you seem friendly, approachable and
open. When your date
arrives and you make eye contact with her, don’t forget to smile! It’s such a simple tip, but it’s an immediate way to create
chemistry and break the ice.
Even if you aren’t sure what to say, a smile goes a long way toward letting your date know that you’re having a great time with her.
Since they are contagious, she’ll probably flash you one in return. In short, never underestimate the power of a smile.
3. Eye Contact.
Some say that the eyes tell no lies. If your eyes are darting around the room and you’re looking everywhere but at your date, you will make your date uneasy. Avoiding eye
contact reeks of emotional insecurity. By maintaining eye contact, you signal
attraction to your date – and attentiveness.
4. The Golden Rule. The most important thing women do notice about their
date is how he treats
others. From friends to waiters to strangers on the
bus, treat others as you would like to be treated.
Your date will notice . . . and approve.
5. Great Conversation is Key to Attraction.
Some of the most interesting people are the ones who are
most interested in others.
Work on your listening skills and ask questions about
information your date
offers. Being a good listener is a potent aphrodisiac. Don’t
be shy about revealing a bit of yourself to your date.
Getting real with your potential match is easier than the
bravado pretense many hide behind, and saves you time
in the long run. (Note, don’t get too personal too soon.)
Also, remember to stick to your best attributes. It is,
after all, about a positive first impression on your first date. [hupso]
