You like this girl that already has a boyfriend; here's what to do

here is what to do 1. Get To Know Her. I mean, everything about her. I’m assuming by now you know you have to be her friend. Not that very attached friend but that aloof friend that is totally concentrating on her whenever she’s with you. So, you have to know her whenever you spend time with her. Knowing her makes you find spaces in her life that you can fill in where her boyfriend is not doing a good job, so don’t skip this step. 2. Let Her Get To Know You. Here’s where you can’t sell yourself short. You have to put your best foot forward. Show her why you will make such an awesome boyfriend, without actually telling her so. Show off your strong points. Talk about your past relationships and in a happy light. Go like, “when I was dating so and so…I used to give her these massages that turned her on…”‘ Brag about your selling point. Make this girl want you! 3. Build Trust. Chicks love honesty. You have to be 100% dependable. While you’re keeping your top dawg status, maintain class. Show chivalry because girls generally believe that gentlemen are trustworthy. 4. Be The Other Guy. This is where things start to heat up. Every relationship has its down moments and you should look out for those so that you know when to swoop in. Couples hang out at eateries, go for movies, sit home and play games etc. You should suggest some of that when she’s fighting with her boyfriend and while doing so, encourage her to open up and talk. Be careful not to engage in activities that will make you spend your money on her a lot or she’ll use you. 5. Add Fuel to the Fire. Be noteful of how many times they fight. Once it gets to the third time, throw in some fuel to the flames by asking her why her boyfriend is treating her unkindly. She might be cautious at first but she will eventually open up to you and then you can let her know that she deserves better. Good for you if the fight is about you,then you can be sure that you have a place in her heart so much that oga is not finding it funny. You can plainly tell her that you like her and respect her relationship but left to you, she’d be in your arms. Add that the choice is hers. 6. Give Her Space. Women don’t like being put in uncomfortable positions, just so you know. Be patient with her and give her space. Still leave hints that you’re that awesome guy she’s missing. You could even go on a date with some other chick and tell her about it. If you notice jealousy, then you’re good to go. Tell her the date was okay but you have had more fun with her. Leave her thinking about you. 7. Make Your Move. This is the riskiest part of the whole game. If you jump in prematurely, you might screw things up. Be very sure she has feelings for you when you do this: Get intimate, a little. Could be a peck on her cheek or on her lips. Or stroking her fingers when you hold her hand, or hugging her and smelling her hair, or looking deep into her eyes and holding her stare. Make her know you want her with being slightly physical. It’s risky but it is guaranteed to seal the deal.

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