So your man tells you he is not planning
on having kids or getting married anytime
soon as he is still sorting out his life... He
tells you he wants to have his second
degree, a proper house and a bigger car
first. You sit there smiling with just a birth certificate thinking how 'lucky' a wife
you'll be?
With the little he has, you ask for
Brazilian hair and designer shoes. He
goes to work and then straight to class
after work. He leaves you in pyjamas in the morning and returns to find you in the
same pyjamas in the evening. While he
studies you watch 'African Magic' and
'Keeping Up with the Kardashians'
He comes back home to find pap and
chicken in the microwave. The only serious conversation you ever have is
about the type of groceries you guys
need.
The only advice you give him is "Babe
you need to buy a new pair of socks, the
ones you bought last time are torn." Nothing intelligent comes out of your
mouth. No plans of making your own life
better. Yes you're are pretty, no doubt
about that. But so is every second girl
passing by.
Don't you realise that you're not doing anything a maid can't do? When he
finishes studying, the first thing he will do
is REPLACE HIS MAID. Because then he
would be able to afford a maid and have
a PROPER WIFE/GF who has brains.
That's when we are going hear your infamous last words, "I was with him
through thick and thin when he had
nothing, now that he is successful he
thinks I am nothing."
Truth is, yes, you're right. You've always
been NOTHING but a maid to him. My dear, empower yourself to be the
woman a successful man wants to be
with... a woman who would be able to
sustain her home if anything happens to
his job or his health!
--------------- Written by a Nigerian girl. Please share
this and help someone.
